CAUTION: Everything you’ve been doing to make him love you more… is the very thing keeping you stuck.
Mixed Signals. Deep Chemistry. Gaslighting.
If walking away from Him were easy, you’d have done it already.
Discover the Science-Based System That Breaks Your Brain's Addiction to Him & Rewires Your Brain for Healthy Love- Even If You've Been Stuck for Weeks, Months, or Years!!
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Here's What's Included in Your $47 Purchase:
Immediate Access to-
The Quit Him System Online Course & Downloadable Guidebook A proven, step-by-step plan to break the obsession, rewire your brain, and feel like
you again—in just 21 days.
The Rapid Relief Toolkit:
Immediate, powerful hacks to stop obsessive thoughts and cravings—so you don’t spiral or reach out.
Daily Brain Rewiring Activities: Quick, science-backed tools that take just minutes but create real, lasting change.
Quit Him System Companion Journal: Printable + digital journal to track your journey, process emotions, and stay grounded.
The ‘Break the Cycle’ Tracker: A visual way to spot patterns, celebrate wins, and keep momentum going.
🎁 BONUS #1- Emergency Reset Audio: Overwhelmed or tempted to reach out? This quick audio brings you back to calm.
🎁 BONUS #2-Affirmation Cards + Phone Screensavers: Daily mindset-shifting reminders that help hardwire your new reality.
🎁 BONUS #3- Visualization Meditation: Feel what freedom from him actually feels like—and start attracting real love.
Why Letting Go Feels Impossible
(Even When You Know You Should)
You landed on my page so I'm going to guess what's happening... You beat yourself up for allowing him to treat you the way he is and chide yourself for not being stronger, not setting limits, not walking away...
But every time you try one things- he ends up sucking you right back in! He gives you enough to keep you hanging on so you won't fully leave but not enough to be truly committed to you.
You think to yourself- why am I so weak?? But you also think- but I love him so much!
YOU ARE NOT WEAK.
YOU ARE A VICTIM OF SOME VERY POWERFUL BRAIN CHEMISTRY.
Your brain is caught in a intense cycle of craving and reward.
No matter how much you tell yourself to move on, this cycle makes it feel impossible.
*And Understand- THIS CYCLE MUST be broken at the source because that's where it is happening-
This is happening at a neurochemical level. Simply talking about it in therapy or venting to your friends won’t stop the craving.
Understanding the problem isn’t enough. Just like a gambler knows they’re losing money but still can’t stop, you know this dynamic is unhealthy, but knowing isn’t enough to change your behavior.
Willpower alone will never work. White-knuckling it fights habits instead of changing them.
*How can you break the cycle?
By rewiring the neural pathways keeping you stuck!!
It’s Not Your Fault, You’re Trapped in a Cycle You Didn’t Realize You Were In!!
DOES THIS SOUND FAMILIAR?? >>
You’re Successful in Every Other Area of Life- and you know he's not good for you but why are you so obsessed with HIM???
You’re a high achiever at work- Taking care of your kids, staying active, healthy, and on top of it all! You're one of those people that everyone says, "Boy, she's got her life together".
So you think to yourself- how is it possible that this one man has so much power over me and my happiness???
BUT No One Has Ever Made You Feel This Way Before!
Your whole body heats up just thinking about him.
That intoxicating rush— the way your heart races at the sound of his name.
But then… the warmth fades.
The doubts creep in...
↠If he feels the same way, why isn’t he calling more?
↠Why is he so inconsistent with texting?
↠Why won’t he initiate plans?
↠Why does he seem secretive at times?
↠Can I really trust him?
And the painful spiral has begun... again...
I know it well...
Part of you is intolerant of and exhausted by his inconsistency. You want to break free.
But another part? Another part isn’t sure you want to.
Because… what if he really is the one?
You are left second guessing yourself ALL THE TIME.
You no longer want to tolerate his behavior but you can't help thinking-
What if walking away means losing something rare and irreplaceable??
I'm assuming you've landed on my page, you already know he's not treating you the way you deserve... the way you desire to be loved... (you might not always admit that to yourself and that's okay too, that's part of the process)
Fact is- everyone in your life is telling you to walk away...
But you simply can't...
You have tried.
But it never sticks.
Because that spark, that connection between the two of you... the passion!
It is s SO STRONG that you can't possibly tear yourself away!!
You can't even really stand up for yourself and ask him for what you need-
WHY?
Because your fear of losing him is too strong- the thought feels DEVASTATING!!!!!
But that fear you think you have is masking something much deeper...
The Shocking Truth: Your Brain Is Secretly Addicted To The Turmoil Of The Relationship.
Yes, that's right... The thing that makes this relationship so painful is ALSO what is making you stuck in it.
Chances are you’ve done everything in this relationship you know you’re 'supposed' to do to make the relationship better:
● You tried to stay strong and play hard to get—but then you caved and texted first
● You let him chase (until you couldn’t take the silence)
● You kept busy, acted mysterious—but still checked your phone 100 times a day
● You didn’t ask where it was going—but you were dying to know
● You even tried moving on, dated other people—but your heart wasn’t in it
But instead of feeling stronger, you feel weaker than ever.
No matter how much you try to distract yourself from him, it’s like your mind refuses to focus on anything else.
Here’s why…
The Subconscious Addiction Loop Most Women Never See:
Here's how the subconscious addiction loop is an endless cycle of suffering that alters your brain:
1. The Trigger : He pulls away or stops texting, and your brain senses a loss of connection.
2. The Craving : Stress hormones like cortisol flood your system, making you anxious and restless.
3. The Hit : Out of nowhere, he resurfaces with a text or a like, and relief rushes through you as dopamine, oxytocin and other good feeling neurotransmitter levels rise again.
4. The Reinforcement: Your brain learns that his attention alleviates discomfort, reinforcing the cycle.
When you’re together? Everything feels AMAZING.
But when you’re apart? You’re lost in confusion.
Here's Are The Devastating Facts Most Women Never Realize-
Every time you:
Attempt to resist texting him… the urge to grab your phone only gets stronger.
Try to push him out of your mind… you think about him even more.
Attempt to go no contact… you find yourself checking his social media in the middle of the night. Is he home?
Promise yourself you are walking away for good this time… he suddenly reaches out and you get sucked right back in.
You’re not gaining control—you’re deepening your emotional addiction to him.
What you think is giving you power is actually reinforcing the very dynamics keeping you stuck.
The more you fight your feelings for him,
the more you are training your brain to crave him.
And that's why it feels impossible to let go!
Until you address the real root of your emotional addiction to him, YOUR BRAIN'S WIRING, the cycle won’t stop— it will only tighten its grip.
Okay so now you see what is happening, every time you think about him, your brain releases a flood of feel-good chemicals— the same ones involved in addiction.
You get positive attention from him- the brain produces those good feeling hormones, giving you a rush of excitement.
He pulls away or does something to question the trust you have in him- the brain stops producing those chemicals, and starts overproducing stress hormones, causing feelings of anxiety and longing.
And repeating this cycle over and over, strengthens the pathways associated with your attachment to and desire for him, making it increasingly challenging to let go.
But just as your brain wired this attachment, it can be rewired.
With the right tools, tools that work at a mind/body level, you can reshape these neural pathways and regain control!!
Think of Quitting Him Like Any Other Addiction
A gambler doesn’t play because they love losing money. An alcoholic doesn’t drink because they love being drunk.
👉 They do it because their brain is wired to crave the next hit.
And your brain?
It’s been wired to crave HIM.
The waiting. The chasing. The unpredictability. Each high reinforces the addiction. Each withdrawal deepens the craving.
Even if you know better...
Even if it’s destroying you...
The reason why you haven't been able to let go of him is
NOT YOUR FAULT!!!
I got you girl, keep reading!
How do I know all this so well??
Because I’ve been where you are.
I remember how painful it felt just to think about walking away.
And how awful it was to stay—day after day—hoping something would change.
I truly believed I’d never love another man like that again.
The thought of leaving made me shake with fear.
I told myself what we had was rare. That I’d never find that kind of connection again.
But here’s what I didn’t understand at the time:
What felt so “special” was actually my brain and body confusing emotional intensity with real love.
My nervous system was wired to interpret the emotional chaos—chemistry, uncertainty, and hormone spikes—as something meaningful and rare.
And the more I tried to walk away, the more addicted I felt—because letting go triggered my brain to crave him even more!
This Subconscious Addiction Loop Isn't Just Mental—It's Wrecking Your Body Too
This subconscious addiction loop that has you trapped isn’t just making you emotionally exhausted. It’s taking a physical toll on you.
Research in the scientific community has now unequivocally determined that emotional stress can lead to a whole host of physical ailments, problems, and even disease.
The cycle that has you trapped is doing more damage than you realize.
The longer this cycle continues the deeper the neural pathway wiring becomes!
This is the damage it is causing in your physical body⬇
🛑 Accelerates Aging & Weakens Immunity
Chronic stress floods your body with cortisol, which breaks down collagen, weakens immunity, and leaves you physically drained. No amount of expensive eye cream can counteract the damage of internal stress, believe me!
🛑 Disrupts Sleep & Drains Energy
Ever notice how thinking about him at night keeps you wired and restless? That’s your nervous system staying in survival mode.
🛑 Keeps Your Body Stuck in Fight-or-Flight
Your body literally thinks you’re in danger— which is why your heart races, your stomach knots, and you feel a sense of panic when he pulls away.
My dear, he is aging you faster than you should be aging!!!
And what's worse is what is happening beyond the physical damage caused by this subconscious addiction loop...
This cycle is stealing your life!
🚫 It’s filtering every experience through pain.
Even happy moments feel muted because your mind is always on the disappointment in your needs not being met.
🚫 It’s sabotaging new relationships.
No one else can measure up because your brain is hooked on the rush of his attention.
🚫 It’s convincing you that nothing will ever change.
The longer you stay in this cycle, the harder it feels to believe that love from a consistent adoring partner is possible.
The Most Dangerous Cost of Staying Stuck?
Time just keeps ticking by...Every single day, your brain deepens these pathways.
Every single day, this addiction gets stronger.
⏳ This isn’t just time passing—it’s stealing your chance at true happiness away each passing day. And if nothing changes?
🗓️ A month from now, you’ll still be stuck in the same cycle—checking your phone, overanalyzing, and waiting for his attention.
🗓️ A year from now, you’ll still feel half-loved, afraid to leave, yet terrified you’ll never find anyone better.
🗓️ Five years from now, your needs will still go unmet, and you’ll look back, realizing how much of your life you’ve given away to this man.
🕰️ And this is why time won't fix this.
Because time isn’t what breaks addictions.
Think about it—how many movies show a woman waiting for the guy to come around… only to find out he’s been with someone else the whole time?
The Holiday. Bridget Jones. He's Just Not That Into You. To name just a few...
She gives him her heart. He gives someone else a ring—or just keeps her hanging on.
Time doesn’t fix emotional unavailability.
🧠 Rewiring your brain is the only way to break the subconscious addiction loop!
Your Brain Has Been Keeping You Stuck— But It Can Also Set You Free
For so long, it has felt like something outside of your control has kept you hooked on him.
Like no matter how much you try to move on, you keep getting pulled back in. But here’s the truth: You are not broken. Your brain is not your enemy.
But here’s the truth: You are not broken. Your brain is not your enemy.
💡 The same brain that has kept you trapped in this cycle…
💡 Can become your greatest ally in breaking free.
With the right tools, you can rewire the very patterns that have made this feel impossible to escape.
The Scientific Breakthroughs That Changed Everything
For years, scientists believed that after a certain age, the brain was fixed—that once you developed certain thought patterns, you were stuck with them for life.
But now we know that’s completely false.
Neuroscience research discovered neuroplasticity- proof that your brain is constantly rewiring itself—forming new neural pathways based on the thoughts you focus on and the emotions you experience.With the right tools, you can rewire the very patterns that have made this feel impossible to escape.
💡 What does this mean for you?
It means that the addiction you feel right now is not permanent.
Rewiring Your Brain Is Like Reprogramming Your Internal GPS
You’ve probably had the experience of getting behind the wheel and automatically driving to work or home, barely noticing the turns. Taking the same route feels natural—effortless. But the moment you try to go a different way, it feels uncomfortable, even wrong, because your brain resists change.
Rewiring your love patterns works the same way.
Every time you think about him, your brain follows the same default route—one that leads straight to obsession, overthinking, and craving his attention.
The Pre-programmed Route
This is the road your brain has traveled a thousand times. It starts with happy thoughts of him, only to spiral into sadness over the problems between you. The more you take it, the stronger and more automatic the route becomes.
Setting a New Destination
You need a tool specifically designed to reprogram your internal GPS. But even after the initial reprogramming, choosing a different route feels unnatural at first. Your brain wants to autopilot back to the old way. However, with practice—using your new tools, calming your emotions, and breaking the craving cycle—you start building a new, healthier path.
Detouring Into Another Direction
The stronger your new programming becomes, the less you revisit old memories, spiral into obsessive thoughts, or feel the same pull toward him. Over time, the old road fades, and your brain naturally redirects you toward peace, self-trust, and emotional freedom. Your brain is built to adapt—and this is the moment you start rerouting your way forward, in a new direction.
👉 These are not who you are. They are simply well-worn pathways in your brain. And just as they were created, they can be undone.
What Results Will You get in Just 21 Days With The Quit Him System?
You will:
Wake up without anxiety over his texts (or lack of them)
Stop obsessively checking your phone for his message
Rewire your brain to feel peace instead of craving
Feel grounded, clear, and powerful—even if he reaches out again
Break the cycle of overthinking what he said—or didn’t say
Detach from the fantasy of who he could be and see who he really is
Stop spiraling after his silence, ghosting, or bread-crumbing
Be able to hear his name or see his post—without unraveling
Release the fear that you’ll never feel this way again
Let go without needing closure from him
Be intolerant of his poor treatment without guilt, shame, or second-guessing
Trust yourself again— even in moments of doubt
Feel strong enough to set boundaries—and keep them
Shift from waiting to be chosen to knowing your worth
Reconnect with the version of you who felt confident, calm, and whole
Finally feel done—not just say you are
The Quit Him System is based on proven neuroscience, psychology, and mind-body techniques like:
This isn’t about forcing yourself to move on.
This isn’t about convincing yourself to let go.
This isn’t about willpower—because willpower alone does not work against brain chemistry.
👉 This is about rewiring the patterns that have kept you stuck—so you stop craving him without the struggle.
The QUIT HIM System Will STOP Your Obsessing & Break Your Subconscious Addiction Loop
And YOU WILL Be Able To Choose With Confidence If You Want to Stay or Go
Just 3 Weeks From Now You Will Have Rewired Your Brain & Broken Free From Your Suffering!!
This Is the Difference Between Just "Trying to Move On" and Actually Breaking Free
🚫 This is NOT:
Just another therapy that keeps you analyzing your pain.
A journal that keeps you trapped in the past.
A self-help book full of concepts but no actionable change.
✅ This IS:
A structured, science-backed process that rewires your brain for freedom.
A simple, powerful system that works in just minutes a day
The exact method that has helped countless women finally let go and move forward
*Just 5-10 minutes a day is all it takes to begin shifting the neural pathways that have kept you trapped in this cycle
Imagine Waking Up and Realizing…
💡🤔
The thoughts that once controlled you have faded.
His name no longer triggers a rush of knots in your stomach.
You feel light, free, and in control again.
Instead of waiting for his attention, you’re thinking about your own future.
And the most powerful part???
It happens faster than you think! ⏳ How much more time are you willing to lose to this cycle?
This doesn’t have to take years. It doesn’t even have to take months. 💛 You can start rewiring your brain today.
An Inside Look At THE 21-Day QUIT HIM System Guidebook & Course Week By Week:
Both the book and the course walk you through daily lessons and exercises that have you:
Week 1: Break Free
🧠 Uncover the hidden reason you can’t let go.
🔗 Recognize the emotional addiction that keeps you stuck.
💡 Learn how your brain has been programmed to crave the highs and lows.
🔥 Start disrupting the cycle so his mixed signals no longer consume you.
Week 2: Rewire Your Brain
🧠 Release subconscious patterns keeping you hooked.
🔎 Identify the hidden beliefs driving your attraction to emotionally unavailable men. 💡 Shift your brain chemistry and emotional responses—so you stop craving him.
🚪 Rewire your nervous system to experience peace instead of chaos.
Week 3: Reinvent Yourself
🧠 Step into a new identity—one where YOU are in control.
🔗 Strengthen boundaries that actually stick—without fear of losing him.
💡 Transform your energy so you attract emotionally available love.
✨ Start living life on your terms—free from the emotional rollercoaster.
Your Complete Quit Him System Includes:
✔ The Full 21-Day Quit Him Workbook & Course- A structured, science-backed course designed to help you break free from obsessive thoughts, rewire your love patterns, and regain emotional control. Featuring The Rewiring Love Patterns Method*, this step-by-step system guides you through powerful daily activities to shift your mindset, reset your nervous system, and reclaim your confidence.
✔ Daily Guided Brain Rewiring Activities- Each day, you’ll engage in simple yet powerful techniques designed to retrain your brain in just minutes. These exercises use cutting-edge neuroscience and psychology to break the cycle of emotional addiction and create lasting change.
✔ The Rapid Relief Toolkit- Get instant relief when obsessive thoughts strike. This set of emergency techniques—featuring quick EFT tapping exercises—helps you regain control in the moments when you feel triggered, anxious, or tempted to reach out.
✔ Structured Reflection Journal (Printable or Digital Format)- Journaling is one of the most effective ways to process emotions and track progress. This beautifully designed journal includes guided prompts to help you stay aware of your growth, reflect on breakthroughs, and reinforce your transformation.
✔ The ‘Break the Cycle’ Tracker- A powerful visual tool to help you track your daily progress. By noting your thoughts, emotions, and actions, you’ll start to see patterns, recognize wins, and stay motivated as you shift away from obsession and into empowerment.
✔ BONUS #1: A Short "Emergency Reset" Audio- A quick, soothing audio guide designed for moments of emotional distress. When you feel overwhelmed, triggered, or tempted to break no contact, this few minute reset featuring EFT tapping will help you calm down, refocus, and stay on track.
✔ BONUS #2: Affirmation Cards & Phone Screensavers Rewire your subconscious with empowering reminders. This set of affirmation cards and downloadable phone screensavers keeps you anchored in your new mindset, reinforcing positive thoughts.
✔ BONUS #3: A Short Visualization Meditation (BONUS!) A guided visualization to help you feel what life is like without obsessing over him. This powerful meditation shifts your energy away from longing and toward a future filled with peace, confidence, and self-love.
Using tools like:
Neurolinguistics Programming– Rewiring the brain to break old attachment loops.
EFT Tapping – A research-backed method to calm emotional triggers and cravings.
Cognitive Reprogramming– Shifting subconscious patterns that keep you hooked.
Attachment Healing– Releasing the childhood and relationship patterns that fuel this dynamic.
The Real Cost of Waiting Another Day
Every 24 hours that you stay stuck, your brain is reinforcing this cycle.
Your neural pathways to obsession become more deeply wired.
Your emotional dependence on him grows stronger.
Your body produces more stress chemicals that drain your energy and confidence.
Your chances at real, healthy love slip further away.
Each day, your brain is either:
✔ Strengthening the Addiction OR Rewiring for Freedom
What Today Really Costs You:
❌ Another sleepless night replaying old conversations.
❌ Another day checking your phone, waiting for a text that never comes.
❌ Another month wasting your energy on a man you can’t trust who keeps you guessing.
❌ Another step further from the life and love you actually deserve.
Your Moment of Choice
Right now, your brain is rewiring itself. The only question is:
Are you strengthening chains of obsession—or breaking free for good?
Every moment you wait…
🔗 The addiction deepens.
🔗 The thought patterns solidify.
🔗The pain becomes harder to escape.
🚨 But today could be different. 🚨
In less than a month, you can:
✔ Break free from the endless cycle of craving, obsessing, and waiting.
✔ Retrain your brain to seek peace instead of chaos.
✔ Step into a future where you are in control of love and attraction.
About The Creator of
The Quit Him System & Subconscious Release Method
Meet Allison Jayne-
For years, I watched smart, successful women—women who had it together in every other area of life—completely unravel when it came to one man.
They knew he wasn’t showing up for them. They knew the push-pull dynamic was destroying their peace. They knew they should let go. But they couldn’t.
Not because they lacked willpower. Not because they didn’t see the red flags.
But because their brain was chemically hooked on this subconscious addiction loop cycle.
After years of studying neuroscience, attachment theory, and energy psychology, I created The Quit Him System—a step-by-step, science-backed process to help women break free, rewire their love patterns, and finally stop chasing the wrong men.
I’ve watched brilliant, capable women completely fall apart and lose their sense of self over one man. I have witnessed women lose decades of their lives hoping this guy would marry them.
And that's why I am offering this- to help women navigate their way out of toxic relationships and to get their power back! To help them reclaim their true identity as a strong successful woman deserving of a supportive, adoring and committed partner!
I have been that woman. And I know what it takes to get on the other side of this subconscious addiction loop. Helping women break and rewire their love patterns, they finally stop chasing the wrong men! That is why I created The Quit Him System.
This system is designed for women just like you—women who are ready to reclaim their power, their peace, and their future.
Still Have Questions? We’ve Got Answers.
Is this program digital or physical?
The Quit Him System is a digital course, meaning you can access it instantly from anywhere. You can use it on your phone, tablet, or computer. If you prefer, you can also download and print any parts you’d like to have on hand.
Is this a one-time payment or a subscription?
It’s a one-time payment—no hidden fees, no ongoing costs. You get lifetime access.
Will this work if I’ve been stuck on him for years?
Yes. This system rewires the brain at the subconscious level, making it possible to break free no matter how long you’ve been trapped in the cycle.
How much time do I need to dedicate each day?
Just 10 minutes a day is all it takes to start rewiring your brain and releasing the emotional addiction.
How quickly can I expect results?
Most women feel a shift within the first few days. By the end of the 21 days, you’ll feel lighter, calmer, and more in control of your emotions—without the constant urge to reach out to him.
My “Quit Him & Be Free” Guarantee
✔Risk-Free, Lifetime Access
I’m so confident in the life-changing power of The Quit Him System that I offer a lifetime guarantee. Plus, you’ll receive access to any future updates or additions to the course at no extra cost. If you don’t experience results, just email me for a full refund—no questions asked.👉
P.S. Your Brain Is Rewiring Itself Right Now
Every moment you wait, your brain is reinforcing the cycle of craving and obsession.
You have two choices:
🔗 Stay stuck in the same emotional rollercoaster.
🔓 Take the first step toward true emotional freedom.
This doesn’t have to take months or years. The rewiring starts the moment you decide
